" ... that some fans think we get extra credit or recognition that ND plays us and ACC opponents ... " - Newsflash, WE DO.
" ... but they are also smiling and giving us the middle finger by not "joining" as an actual member." -- so what? You think UNC, or UVA, or Duke really want U of L in their conference?? Hell no they don't. So why should we care if ND does that?
Does ND deserve their special treatment by all of college football? That's a debate that has raged for the past 20-30 years. And it will continue to be debated.
But BECAUSE they have this special place in college football, we DO get extra credit for beating them. That's just a fact.
I'm rooting for ND over Ohio State because Ohio State fans are numerous, and insufferable.
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